

“It’s a bit scary to know that the most valuable private company in the world has your address and has shown up and has questions for you,”
That’s how “service of process” works. “Process server” is an entire career for people who figure out how to deliver legal documents to people personally.
That’s, uh, not why DoD occasionally sends officers to Harvard and other elite universities. DoD does this because they want some of their officers to have high quality advanced degrees.