This is actually a very big thing in conservative areas. It’s like they all want to be that princess that they were told they were at 3 years old.

It is relatable when it’s your friends and family. When it’s your work, especially secure work, there are no excuses. It’s why organizations hire specialists to manage this sort of thing.

It’s very common outside of Europe and North America. You don’t need to be wealthy when so many are super poor.

Agreed. You’ll see it more often associate with religion.

The term you are looking for is “external locus of identity”. And, yes.